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I Used To Be So Strong.

As someone who has worked with survivors of abuse for over ten years, I've always considered myself fairly capable of separating work stress with the rest of life. Compartmentalizing, if you will. People often say to me "I don't know how…
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Four Walls by Jessica Curiel

This blog comes to us today from Jessica Curiel, who has been volunteering her incredible writing skills for My Refuge House since the organization began in 2008. Jessica was finally able the visit My Refuge House in April 2013 as part of a…
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Daring to Dream

I was rummaging through my notes today, and I found the words of Anne* stuck in the pages of my notebook. When I was visiting My Refuge House, Anne wanted to share with the group what she had learned, and it touched me so much that I asked her…
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I am a Survivor

Sometimes, many times, those who are victimized feel some sense of guilt for what has happened to them. As if they were responsible for their own abuse. As if they had brought it on themselves. Let's get something straight: At My Refuge…
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Endgame

Today's blog was written by an International Justice Mission (IJM) Legal Fellow, Walton Walker. Walton is currently serving in the Cebu, Philippines field office, and as a part of one of our partnerships on the ground, I thought you might like…
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Define Love

As a teenager, I heard a Jeff Foxworthy joke that went something like this: Someone once asked me what the word love means. I thought for a minute, then reached over and grabbed his arm, twisting it around his back. Who's asking the questions…
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Christmas Freedom

Christmas. The word can bring up so many emotions, so many memories. For some, there are non-negotiables. Turkey. Eggnog. Cheesy potatoes. Family. Friends. New Pajamas. Evergreens covered in twinkling lights. Snow. For some, Christmas…
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A Letter from the Chairman of the Board

A letter from Cass Bensberg, the Chairman of the Board of Directors of My Refuge House December 2012 As we enter this season where we have just celebrated our thankfulness to God for His provision and will shortly commemorate our Savior’s…
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Define a Hero

Yesterday, I had the privilege of being in the studio audience of CNN's annual Heroes show. There is something inspiring and humbling about attending a production that's sole purpose is to honor and recognize heroic individuals all around…
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Prayers and Progress

Today, I visited My Refuge House for the first time in over 5 months. I have to say, it's surreal and amazing to come back to this house. As many of you know, I directed our home in the Philippines for over 2 years, before moving to…